"Now Israel loved Joseph more than any of his other sons, because he had been born to him in his old age; and he made an ornate robe for him" – Genesis 37:3.
Jacob loved Joseph more than his other sons because of what Joseph represented: the love of Joseph's mother, Rachel (who died in childbirth while delivering Joseph's brother), and God's faithfulness to Jacob in his old age. Therefore, Jacob made his son a special coat for Joseph to show his special affection, which of course drove the other brothers crazy to the point of conspiracy to murder. The point is, however, that Jacob had to have some creative skills to sew and do fashion design, which are skills usually associated with a woman and not a man. Specific creative skills, however, are not gender specific, and God can distribute those gifts to whomever He wishes, male or female. Do you have creativity that you think would be better suited to someone of the other gender? Are you a man but like to sew, a woman but like to design buildings, a man who likes to care for children, a woman who enjoys leading a company? Are you ready to accept the fact that this is who God made you to be, and stop giving in to church or societal pressures that say otherwise?
Lord, I admit that I have hidden some of my creativity so that others would not think I am strange just because my gift is usually associated with the opposite sex. No longer will I second-guess how you made me, but instead I will move forward to express my love for others through the creative gifts you gave me–all of them.